[THIS POST IS NNSFCL: NOT NECESSARILY SAFE FOR THE CHILDLESS]
a note from the followup to my post that wondered, "What should happen to this blog now that I am not going to be biologically childless?" in short, i'm going to keep this blog alive for now; label posts with warnings if i think they might be upsetting to those childless people who are triggered by certain topics; and just see what happens.
becoming pregnant doesn't mean you stop caring about what happens with childfree/childless issues, and the people suffering because of them.
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thanks you guys... i think what is happening (i'm working on Letting Things Happen in life as opposed to Planning All the Right Things)... is that this blog will continue being itself, despite me having this big change.
today i posted here & i also changed the banner header to reflect what is going on now. i'm thinking i might put little headers on pages and posts that say, "this part is a safe zone for childless/childfree/grievin peeps" or, "this post is parent-oriented" or whatever.
what Christina said above, about this beiong a "standing memoir," really stuck with me. so i think i'm just gonna stay here and let the blog evolve along with me. i guess i'm not seeing the point of a dead blog about childless/childfree issues --- if the thing is dead, it's dead and not of much use to people. the previous/old/linked posts and resources won't have any new stuff on them about pregnancy or children.
thanks everyone for your feedback. i've really been thinking about what was posted here and what you guys sent me in private email... and while LEtting It Happen, it seemed to evolve naturally in the direction of keeping Nymphe and letting it change.
Posted by: magdalen - tiffany | May 05, 2010 at 09:12 PM
it is great that you decided to stay.what has been so wonderful and different about your blog is the honesty with which your described the ambiguity of your feelings. and if you describe your pregnancy and you mothering in the same vain, we call can greatly benefit from that - checking and comparing with our own experiences. thank you for your depth and sincerety
Posted by: Assia | June 05, 2010 at 09:36 AM
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